Relationship Personality Test Backed by Science

Take the Relationship Personality Test and discover your compatibility across 31 dimensions—including attachment style, love language, MBTI, Big Five, Enneagram, and more.

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What is the Relationship Personality Test?

The Relationship Personality Test is a comprehensive assessment that blends insights from psychology's most trusted frameworks—including attachment theory, love languages, the Big Five, MBTI, and the Enneagram. Rather than focusing on just one angle, it gives a full picture of how you show up in relationships: how you connect, what you need, how you handle conflict, and who you're most compatible with.

Benefits of Understanding Your Relationship Personality

✓ Discover your core relationship patterns and needs

✓ Understand your attachment style and emotional triggers

✓ Learn your love language and communication preferences

✓ Identify your ideal partner compatibility matches

✓ Get science-based guidance for deeper connections

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Gottman Method Dimensions

Based on Dr. John Gottman's decades of research, these dimensions evaluate the fundamental pillars of relationship success. They assess how well you build friendship, navigate conflict, and maintain romantic connection—the core elements that predict relationship longevity and satisfaction.

Relationship Health Partner Knowledge Friendship & Connection Shared Values Romance & Intimacy

Attachment Styles

Your attachment style shapes how you connect, trust, and respond to intimacy. Understanding whether you lean secure, anxious, or avoidant helps you recognize relationship patterns and build healthier emotional bonds with partners who complement your attachment needs.

Secure Attachment Anxious Attachment Avoidant Attachment

Love Languages

Dr. Gary Chapman's five love languages reveal how you prefer to give and receive love. Knowing your primary love language—and your partner's—transforms how you express affection and feel valued in relationships, creating deeper emotional connection.

Words of Affirmation Acts of Service Receiving Gifts Quality Time Physical Touch

MBTI Core Dichotomies

The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator reveals your cognitive preferences across four key dimensions. Understanding whether you're introverted or extraverted, sensing or intuitive, thinking or feeling, and judging or perceiving helps explain your relationship communication style and decision-making approach.

Extraversion vs. Introversion Sensing vs. Intuition Thinking vs. Feeling Judging vs. Perceiving

Big Five Personality Traits

The most scientifically validated personality model reveals your core traits across five key dimensions. These traits influence everything from communication style to conflict resolution, helping you understand your relationship strengths and growth areas.

Openness Conscientiousness Extraversion Agreeableness Neuroticism

Enneagram Types

The Enneagram reveals your core motivations, fears, and relationship patterns. By understanding your type—from The Perfectionist to The Peacemaker—you gain insight into what drives your behavior in relationships and how to connect more authentically with others.

The Perfectionist The Helper The Achiever The Individualist The Investigator The Loyalist The Enthusiast The Challenger The Peacemaker

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To know who you’re truly compatible with, you first need to understand who you are at your core.

True compatibility starts with deep self-awareness. That’s why this assessment takes a holistic approach—because to know who you’re truly compatible with, you first need to understand who you are at your core.

PQ’s Relationship Personality Test draws on six of the most rigorously studied frameworks in modern psychology: the Big Five, Attachment Theory, MBTI, Enneagram, Love Languages, and the Gottman Method. Each has been validated through decades of peer-reviewed research and clinical application. For example, the Big Five alone is supported by over 15,000 studies across cultures, making it one of the most robust models in psychology (John, Robins, & Pervin, 2008).

By combining insights from all six, we go beyond surface-level traits to uncover patterns in how you think, relate, and connect. This multi-framework synthesis, powered by psychometric analysis, offers more accurate and personalized insights than any single test—giving you a science-backed map of both your inner world and your potential for lasting connection.

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Frequently Asked Questions About The Relationship Personality Test

What is the Relationship Personality Test?

The Relationship Personality Test is a comprehensive assessment that blends insights from six trusted psychological frameworks: the Big Five, Attachment Theory, MBTI, Enneagram, Love Languages, and the Gottman Method. It evaluates 31 dimensions to reveal how you show up in relationships, what you need, how you handle conflict, and who you're most compatible with. The test is free to take, with a detailed report available for $19.

What are the 31 dimensions measured in the test?

The test measures 31 dimensions across six frameworks: 5 Gottman dimensions (relationship health, partner knowledge, friendship, values, romance), 3 attachment styles (secure, anxious, avoidant), 5 love languages (words, acts, gifts, time, touch), 4 MBTI dichotomies (E/I, S/N, T/F, J/P), 5 Big Five traits (openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, neuroticism), and 9 Enneagram types (perfectionist through peacemaker).

How accurate is the Relationship Personality Test?

The test is based on psychology's most rigorously validated frameworks, each supported by decades of peer-reviewed research. The Big Five alone is backed by over 15,000 studies across cultures. By combining insights from multiple frameworks through psychometric analysis, we provide more accurate and personalized insights than any single assessment could offer.

Do I need to be in a relationship to take this test?

No! The test is valuable whether you're single, dating, or in a committed relationship. If you're single, it helps you understand your relationship patterns and what to look for in a compatible partner. If you're coupled, both partners can take it to better understand each other's personalities and improve your connection.

How long does it take to complete the test?

The Relationship Personality Test typically takes 25-35 minutes to complete thoroughly. You'll receive your basic personality profile immediately after completion for free. For comprehensive insights across all 31 dimensions with personalized guidance and compatibility analysis, you can purchase the detailed report for $19.

What's included in the detailed personality report?

The detailed report ($19) includes: complete analysis across all 31 personality dimensions, your attachment style and relationship patterns, primary love language and communication preferences, MBTI type and cognitive style, Big Five trait profile, Enneagram type and core motivations, personalized compatibility insights, and science-based guidance for building deeper connections.

How does this differ from other personality tests?

Unlike tests that focus on just one framework, our assessment integrates six validated psychological models to give you a complete relationship personality profile. This multi-framework approach provides more nuanced and accurate insights than any single test, helping you understand both your inner world and your potential for lasting connection.

Can this test help improve my current relationship?

Absolutely! Understanding your personality patterns and those of your partner can dramatically improve communication, reduce conflict, and deepen intimacy. The detailed report ($19) provides specific strategies for your personality type, helping you navigate challenges and leverage your relationship strengths for better connection.

How often should I retake the test?

While core personality traits remain relatively stable, your relationship patterns and self-awareness can evolve. We recommend retaking the test every 12-18 months or during major life transitions. Each detailed report ($19) reflects your current growth and provides fresh insights for your ongoing relationship journey.

Is the test scientifically valid?

Yes! Each framework we use has been extensively validated through peer-reviewed research and clinical application. The Big Five, Attachment Theory, and Gottman Method are considered gold standards in psychology. Our multi-framework synthesis approach is designed by experts to provide scientifically sound insights into your relationship personality.

Is my information kept private and secure?

Absolutely! We take your privacy seriously. All test responses and results are completely confidential and securely stored. Your personal information is never shared with third parties. You have full control over your results and can choose whether to share them with partners or others. The detailed report ($19) is delivered securely to your email.

Can I use this test for dating and finding compatible partners?

Yes! Understanding your relationship personality helps you identify what you truly need in a partner and recognize compatible matches. The detailed report ($19) includes specific guidance on compatibility patterns and what to look for in potential partners based on your unique personality profile and relationship style.

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